The Story of Mike and the Array of Abused Ladies

players heart breakersOne of my best friends in high school, (I’ll call him Mike) grew up in a single-family home. Mike never knew his dad, and his mother was wantonly promiscuous. All three of her children were born out of wedlock to different men. She raised them to follow in her footsteps. Her two daughters were versed at using their beauty and bodies to manipulate men.

The three women would tell Mike all of the time that he was going to be a heart breaker and they trained him on how to be one. They showed Mike how to seduce women and how to gain control of a woman’s emotions.

Although he was still in high school, Mike had become a master of seduction! When I saw how the girls swooned over him, my mind was made, I wanted to be like Mike! He agreed to school me on the rudiments of being a player. Me and countless other boys always wondered what Mike said to these girls to get them to fall in love with him and to have sex with him.

I sincerely thought he was going to show me some super smooth moves and give me some dazzling words to say. Instead, the only thing he taught me was how to be a liar! He told me to lie about everything: my age, the grade I was in, and anything I could think of to convince a female to have sex with me! He showed me how to instantly get a girl’s attention and how to look a girl in the eyes and say, “I love you,” even though I didn’t love her.

He instructed me on how to evade her or break-up with her after I got into her panties. He showed me other tactics such as how to turn a virgin out, how to manipulate girls and how to date two or three females at the same time. After he was all said and done, I no longer wanted to be like Mike.

From Protectors To Predators… From Princes to Pimps, Multitudes of males in our society are like Mike, they have been indoctrinated to be predators rather than protectors, princes and knights in pining armor rather than Knights in shining armor. These males have even arrogantly crept into the church pews! It was a common thing for Mike to prey upon and then seduce untrained church girls.

After he stole their virginity and broke their hearts, he would laugh and giggle about his destructive sexual exploits. When we graduated from high school, I lost contact with Mike, but the females whose lives he stained with his presence, I still see every now and then.

Some of them never recovered. Mike never looked back to see if he had impregnated any of those girls. He never checked upon them to see if any of them had aborted his child, or contracted a sexually transmitted disease from him. He never cared if he caused any of them to be heartbroken, depressed, bitter, vengeful or suicidal. To Mike, it was all fun and games. Sex was just a sport and females were his trophies.

Since being in the ministry, my path has crossed countless women who have been wounded, scarred, and damaged by males like Mike.

How do these females react to being exploited, dismissed, dumped, kicked to the curb, used and abused?

The answer may alarm you…