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KCee Talks Rape And Getting Consent

KCee Talks Rape And Getting Consent

“Limpopo” crooner, KCee has taken to social media to share with his fans how to get the consent of the woman. The singer took to his Instagram to share his thoughts on the issue of rape which has been a recurring conversation in Nigeria. According to the award-winning musician, most rape victims get blamed for a crime committed against them.

Sharing the tips on getting sexual consent, he wrote: “Rape is the only crime the victim becomes the accused. For those of you that find it difficult to get the consent of a woman sexually, here are some tips that may help you. Have a good manner of approach. Make enough money to buy her designers bags like the ones am buying now. Show emotions and affections at all times.

Be in her plans and always plan with her. Send her surprise gifts. They also love flowers a lot, and above all send her money without reasoning. By the time you fulfill the above mentioned obligations she is all yours already. If you can’t cope kindly JOIN soapy.

#Saynotorape love is a beautiful thing.” It would be recalled that issue of rape recently became a topic of conversation for many when Busola Dakolo, the wife of Nigerian musician, Timi Dakolo came forward with a rape allegation against the global Senior Pastor of the Commonwealth of Zion Assembly (COZA), Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo.

According to her, he raped her twice in one week when she was a teenager and although Fatoyinbo maintained his innocence, he took a leave of absence from the pulpit. Kingsley Chinweike Okonkwo, believes that if a woman's consent is gotten before sex, it is no more rape. Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person's consent.

The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority, or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an intellectual disability or is below the legal age of consent. The term rape is sometimes used interchangeably with the term sexual assault. Rape by strangers is usually less common than rape by people the victim knows, and male-on-male and female-on-female prison rapes are common and may be the least reported forms of rape.

Widespread and systematic rape (e.g., war, rape) and sexual slavery can occur during international conflict. These practices are crimes against humanity and war crimes. Rape is also recognized as an element of the crime of genocide when committed with the intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a targeted ethnic group. People who have been raped can be traumatized and develop post traumatic stress disorder.Serious injuries can result along with the risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.

Beliefs in family honor and sexual purity attitudes of male sexual entitlement; weak legal sanctions for sexual violence can cause rape.No single facet explains the motivation for rape; the underlying motives of rapists can be multi-faceted. Several factors have been proposed:power,sadism, sexual gratification amongst others. Most people recover from rape in three to four months, but many have persistent PTSD that may manifest in anxiety, depression, substance abuse, irritability, anger, flashbacks, or nightmares. 

In addition, rape survivors may have long term generalised anxiety disorder, may develop one or more specific phobias, major depressive disorder, and may experience difficulties with resuming their social life, and with sexual functioning.People who have been raped are at higher risk of suicide. So, according to Kcee, stop the frequent occurrence of rape by seeking concent from your partner.

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