The Missing Aspect of the Phrase: I LOVE YOU!

A lot of us misconstrue the true meaning of love. For some of us it is about that special feeling without any form of responsibility. Love goes beyond all that, I personally think love can be summarised as seen below;

  • I---------- Investment is Mandatory.
  • L--------- Loyalty is Mandatory
  • O---------Opinions should be respected
  • V---------Vengeance is not Allowed
  • E---------Education should be at Par
  • Y---------You should learn to live with You
  • O---------Others will love and
  • U---------Understand you better when you love yourself.

Most of us don't love ourselves, that's why we can't love another. I LOVE YOU is a strong phrase, don't say it any how if you are not ready to;

  • Invest in those you claim to love;
  • Be loyal to them always;
  • Respect their opinions even when you think it is not making sense to you;
  • Avoid paying your loved ones back in their own coin when you feel cheated;
  • You should also be ready to bring them up to the level of your understanding if you are more learned than they are; Last but not the least, before you commit to anyone,
  • Learn to love and pamper yourself first.

If you are stingy to yourself, you will always be stingy to others. Hope you are having a great day people?

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